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Aug 7 2009 12:00 am
Best Wishes in the Future!
May your Dreams come true!
Heather
Mar 27 2009 04:31 am
I Bless you both.
I only wish the best for you both as I see that you you want children and I know how you feel.
My husband and I have wanted the same for 10 yrs now and we finally receieved our blessing.
We were told he could never successfully have a vasectomy-reversal but the proof is a coming.
My prayers are with you both.
Tasha & Brent Man. Canada
Mar 17 2009 10:33 pm
God Bless Both of You.
Best Wishes in the Future!
Kate U.S.A.
I will pray for you.
Nov 24 2008 12:11 am
May "Hope, Love, Wishes and Hope" look over you two and give you what you so much deserve.
May the two of you soon be able to hold a loving child again.
You both so much deserve that!
Best of wishes in the New Year.
Katrina
Oct 28 2008 04:39 am
My God!!!
You two deserve a child. What is wrong with this picture!
I wish I could do something for the two of you to make what should be.. I know how you both feel as my husband and I was going through the same thing "but" we somehow beat the odds.
Anyways please know that all my prayers are going out to the two of you. Best wishes and please keep us posted on your success!
Dawn & Brian fr Toronto Ont
Oct 15 2008 11:05 pm
Good Luck!
Hope the two of you the best of luck and much success!
Kathy
Oct 10 2008 03:46 am
Just wanted to let you both know.. We are thinking of you.
What a sweet child you had and always will have.
We wanted to wish you all the best in your latest adventure and may you both succeed!
All the best
Joan & Ben
North Bay Ontario
Sep 1 2008 08:10 pm
I hope you both all the best as you both deserve it and I truly hope you have many children as I know you will both be excellent parents.
I hope you can have your own but adoption and vitro are available and you will be just as blessed.
All the best.
Mary
Jul 7 2008 03:02 am
I'm so sorry for your two's loss.. I know what it feels like as I have lost a child too!
It takes great courage to do what you two have done up to now & even more courage to do what you two are doing and planning to do.. Hats off to the two of you and keep up the will and strenth to succeed in what you want.
I will be thinking of you here from Quebec.
Lots of Luck & Best Wishes
Thanks for producing such a great web-site for people to view.
A Quebec Resident & a Parrsboro Visitor
Mar 30 2008 05:03 am
What a precious son you had the chance to be with and spend time with.
Hopefully you will succeed in your wishes and will again have more to cheerish..
Lots of luck and Love.
I will pray for you both.
Lora
Feb 2 2008 07:04 am
So very sorry for your loss.
But so very happy for the two of you to decide to try again to have a child.
Best of luck and may your dreams come true as you both deserve it so very much!
Lisa
Jun 1 2007 02:28 pm
he is beautiful
god bless you guys.
angela adshade
May 10 2007 02:16 am
What a precious little darling you had.
So very sorry for your loss.
Be blessed that you at least had loving memories with him that you can always cheerish together.
Marion Pykes, Vermont,U.S.A.
Nov 21 2006 12:08 am
Troy Mommy & Daddy miss you and will always cheerish you...Always loved and always remembered.
Love You Always
Troy(Dad) & Crystal(Mom) Melanson
xoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxo
Troy waiting to go for a drive with dad to get a movie for later...
New pictures & Info. added towards the bottom of this page...
Updated: Dec. 1st, 2009.
Baby Troy and Mommy posing at Nanny Smith's in Amherst.
This is Daddy holding Baby Troy the day he got to come home...Stopped to visit Nanny Smith in Amherst on the way.
Baby Troy's resting place at Parrsboro's United Cemetary in June 2008...
Always remembered and missed dearly
Love Always
Daddy & Mommy
xoxoxoxoxoxoxoxo
Our family headstone...
Troy standing with his beloved son & grandmother at their resting place...
Baby Troy's resting place at Parrsboro's United Cemetary in June 2008 next to his Great-
Grandmother Inez M. Smith who is my grandmother and will always be missed and loved too...
Love Ya & miss you gram
xoxoxoxoxoxoxoxo
Always remembered and missed dearly
Love Always
Daddy & Mommy
xoxoxoxoxoxoxoxo
Baby Troy's resting place at Parrsboro's United Cemetary in June 2008 next to his Great-Grandmother Inez M. Smith who is my grandmother and will always be missed and loved too...
Love Ya & miss you gram
xoxoxoxoxoxoxoxo
Always remembered and missed dearly
Love Always
Daddy & Mommy
xoxoxoxoxoxoxoxo
This was our only child together but we will have more when it is possible for us to do so again...
We lost him to SIDS in 1995...
Always Loved & Missed Dearly.
Give to SIDS research as they
still do not know what causes it.
There are many SIDS sites on the
internet with important info &
help groups for parents who have
or are going through this...Helped
Us out.
Click on the Smith's Funeral Home Logo to see his memorial at Smiths Funeral Home in Parrsboro.
Our Little Angel (By Crystal Melanson, June,2009.)
Our little angel, only had three months to share,
The brightness and joy he brought to our hearts,
Will forever, remain there.
With a wisp of blonde hair, Eyes, the most vivid blue,
And a smile, so irresistable, so beautiful and true,
Our sweet child, these are our fondest memories, of you.
Love Always, Mommy and Dady.
Click on the SIDS Network for SIDS
Guestbook & Information
- Our Baby Troy jr. is in
the guestbook too.
(Look for him)
In Memory Of.. Put On the American Sids Institute Memorial Site..
Children are a precious gift. We have created this page to honor those infants lost as a result of sudden infant death syndrome. Please keep the following babies and their families in your thoughts.
- Click on the baby with the bear swinging to take you to the American SIDS Institute Memorial Site and for information and memorials....
Baby Troy is on this site too.
Christmas 2006 at Troy's and Gram's resting place..
Christmas Tree that Crystal & myself put up on the site.
"New" 2008 Christmas Tree Pics of our son's & Troy's Gram's resting place at the United Cemetary in Parrsboro..
December 28th,2008.
New pictures & New Information added below right to the bottom of this page...
Updated: Dec. 1st, 2009.
February 5th,2008.
Just wanted to say thanks to all the people who offered their assistance on our quest to have a baby in the near future as we had lost our only child to SIDS in 1995.
On being able to seek out a doctor that could help us on getting my reversal-vasectomy in order for us to bring our dream to life... As we want to be like everyone else.. Have children - Love them and watch them grow up and to teach them right from wrong and have them grow up to be something in this world and yes maybe someday watch over us.. Ha,Ha.. If U know what I mean...
Anyways we just got the great news today from our doctor telling us we have a apoointment in Saint John N.B. in Mid Febuary with a specialist and now can get the operation done within 6 months.. Hooray!!!
Anyways we just wanted to wish everyone A Great Big Thank You to all who offered their kind help as it was so very much appreciated.
Thank You
Troy & Crystal Melanson
**** All "Newest" Information posted below!!!! **** Newest News as of: December 1st, 2009.
March 30th,2008.
For anyone who cares to know.. Our appointment in February with the specialist was bumped to April 2nd, 2008 as he had too many operations at the time we were suppose to go in February... But something this important to us will be worth the wait...
Time is fast approaching... We can't wait.. Wish us luck!!! Please!!!
We are soo very excited now as it is getting soo close now to our dream that "will" happen!!!
Troy & Crystal
April 3rd,2008.
Our Appointment has once again been bumped until April 7th,2008... Will keep you posted on the progress..
Whenever it happens.
We still are very positive on the outlook.. It's just taking longer than expected.. But all good things are worth the wait!!!
April 6th,2008.
We are getting ready once again to go to Saint John N.B. to see our specialist.. Hope all goes well this time!!!
Will keep you posted on the progress..
May,2008.
Just a quick note to let you all know that our appointment with the specialist in Saint John went "Great" Looks like June for my operation so we can once again (will) have children!
We Will be a Dad & Mom again in the future!!!
Take Care
Thanks All who sent best wishes and showed their concern.
Troy & Crystal
Thanks Again for the support :-)
June 1st,2008.
Still awaiting confirmation on my operation in Sussex N.B. on June 30th,2008.
:-)
July,2008.
We once are again sorry to announce that "Again" my operation has been changed to August or September 2008 either sometime towards the end of either month as our doctor cannot do the operation until then... :-(
"But" the wait will always be worth it... :-)
I will keep ya posted on all new updated info.
Troy
September 9th, 2008..
Still waiting but also trying a new clinic in Moncton N.B. as well.. They want us to contact them as soon as we get back from our vacation in September.. Good News we hope!!!
We will keep ya posted on all new updated info.
Troy & Crystal
September 22nd,2008.
We are going to a positive appointment in Moncton at a clinic in 2 days on Sept. 24th,2008... Hopefully it will be the answer to our prayers... Keep your fingers crossed for us and wish us luck...
Will keep ya posted when we get back from appoint... :-)
Troy & Cry's
October 10th, 2008.
We "again" have a surgery appointment in Sussex N.B. for me for my reversal on November 24th, 2008.. So we can again have children.
So lets hope this is the one for us without anymore cancellations.. So we can... Once again have children which we both want soo very much!!!! - Wow!!! Now it is can we come up with it!!!
November 3rd,2008.
WOW!! Now it is now a matter of money - Do not think we can up with it in time!!!
Will we be able to come up with enough money for the procedure in time ( We are trying!!! - But to no Avail. ) As this is not covered by Nova Scotia Health Care but by other (most) Provinces...
Why Not!!! Is my question???
Guess it is because we are in the Atlantic Provinces!!! Have nothing.. We loose everything to the West.. Especially now after this 2008 election!!!
Anyways we are still trying!!!
We will keep ya posted when we can..
Especially when a Miracle will happen for us to fully come up with the money to cover the Fees... :-)
This we will do... Some way - some how we will succeed.. Faith always prevails!!!!
At least that is what we believe!!!
June 10th, 2009.
We now know my appointment is now for the late Summer of 2009 now...
Not going to let this bother us anymore... Gives us some time now... To be able to come up with the money too!!! Expensive it is.. Business slow.. Soo... We have to save even harder now!!!!
"But" As we have said before - Some way some how we will succeed in our dream to have children once again.. Faith always prevails!!!!
At least that is what we believe!!!
Will keep ya posted...
Troy & Cry's
December 1st, 2009.
We are now trying to have a child again!!!
We will succeed in our dream to have children once again.. Faith always prevails!!!!
At least that is what we believe!!!
"Our children will be seeing you soon!!!!"
Will keep ya posted... Dreams Do Come True!!!!
Troy & Cry's
This is our Newest Pictures added...
Compliments & a huge thank you to Beulah McMaster - Troy's Grandmother for having them to give to us.
